About Me

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My name is Adrian but call me AJ.

I was born and raised in Zion, Illinois, a city with a rich history and a unique character.

Situated near Lake Michigan, Zion is a place where small-town values meet the challenges of modern life.

Growing up there grounded me in community and tradition, but also gave me the ambition to step outside familiar boundaries.

My earliest school years were spent at a private Christian school, where faith, discipline, and structure shaped much of my foundation.

Family dynamics also played a big role in who I am.

As a Millennial raised entirely by my grandparents, I grew up with the wisdom and perspective of the Baby Boomer generation guiding me every step of the way.

That upbringing gave me what many would call an “old soul.”

I tend to approach life with patience, respect for tradition, and an eye for the bigger picture.

It’s an identity that makes me a bit different from many of my peers and explains why I often feel equally connected to the past as I am to the future.

Junior high was my first experience in public school.

Up until then, I had been in private education, so stepping into that environment was a big change.

Still, it became an important period of growth and adaptability.

My high school years were even more unconventional.

I was part of the very first graduating class at an all-tech school.

Since each year only admitted around 100 new students, there wasn’t much of a blueprint for how things were supposed to go.

We were pioneering students in a sense—forced to figure things out, create traditions, and do a lot of growing up on our own.

Sports and entertainment have been central to my identity since those days.

In high school, and even back to junior high, athletics gave me purpose, discipline, and confidence.

That passion carried over into college, where I attended the University of Dubuque.

There, I wrestled competitively for all four years, testing myself at a national level and experiencing the dedication it takes to perform at the highest standards.

The lessons I learned on the mat—resilience, focus, and accountability—are things I’ve carried with me well beyond sports.

I graduated in 2016 with a college degree, ready to take on the professional world.

But like many Millennials, my career path hasn’t followed a straight line.

I’ve worked a series of loose jobs since then, most of which barely aligned with my field of study.

Today, I’m unemployed and went as low as being homeless (following a string of failed rehab attempts), but I don’t see that as the end of the story.

If anything, it’s part of the larger narrative of my life—one marked by resilience, adaptability, and the willingness to grow through every chapter.

From Zion to Dubuque, from private school to pioneering a tech high school, from wrestling mats to navigating the unpredictable job market—I’ve always found a way to keep moving forward.

My journey isn’t defined by one title or career, but by the lessons I’ve collected along the way.


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