RealTalkAJ

• Healthy Skin
• Confidence that attracts
• The ability to rap
• Creativity
• Being a content magnate going for myself

Sure I could say I’m kind, caring, emphatic, thoughtful or something similar, but I’m going with the above about myself this time. Most people choose other things about themselves. Maybe it’s the size of their eyes, being small, being able to make cute faces or funny messages with emojis, having unique sized body parts, flirting skills or selfie takes skills with filters!

How do you make yourself cuter?

Wear clothes that flatten your body shape, feel comfortable in, and are less baggy.

It’s against my traditional hip hop roots to make this recommendation but if the goal’s to look cuter then that’s the way to go about it.

If I had to share my personal ways to go out as cuter then it would go this way:

• Being able to use your eyes in a way that compliments whatever way you smile
• Using color more with whatever outfit you decide to wear
• Choosing words that create a more pleasant image of yourself
• Treating the people around you the best (making it a competition [friendly] among your company)

What makes a girl cute?

Going off the suggestions of WikiHow they say it’s by:

• Being open and friendly with people
• Dressing and behaving in certain ways

If I add in my own reply off initial view then I’m going more off displaying motherly qualities and ability to foster quality mental health.

I went to a high school where the motto was “a break with tradition” but as I grow I realize there’s some traditions I still prefer.

Coming from someone that has experience with when it comes to being around what most considers cute girls I feel comfortable with identifying them.

There’s a sparkle in their eye that tells a story.

Zoom out and you’ll find that they even have a drive to share a message as attractive as their physical beauty.

The sheen in their hair has a glow regardless of how much is actually showing, attention gets brought in the area to make their face come altogether.

How to look more attractive?

Inc.com shares a list of 11 ways you can look more attractive, and they’re hard to argue with.

After reviewing them I have 3 that I agree with most:

• Always be ready to tell a good story
• Demonstrate inquisitiveness
• Practice good posture

Being ready to tell a good story

I like the story telling aspect a lot, and I’ll explain why.

A good story shows your ability to both be imaginative and communicate effectively.

This quality became an obvious value as I started getting into more fictional stories growing up.

Demonstrating inquisitive qualities

I’ll be first to say that I don’t always use the word inquisitive, but when I do it fits the scenario perfectly it seems.

Being inquisitive is showing your interest in whatever, whether it’s people, places, ideas or things.

Practicing good posture

I’m writing this while sitting upright and almost feel like I’m stroking my man ego at this point.

But it’s true.

There’s more likely more to the few points I agreed with but they just strike cords with me because they can be summarized with single words:

Communication, Interested, Balanced

Combine them and paint the picture for what type of person this makes…

It’s a person that desires things, but not only that, they can explain why they want whatever it is.

And the balance comes from being able to eventually acquire whatever they want intention but doesn’t go after everything out of self respect.

What makes a girl cute vs hot?

I’m gonna answer this without much thought being put into it.

A girl that’s cute feels more synonymous with love while hot feels closer to lust.

Again, experience allows me to draw this parallel in being able to reflect on girls that I liked for a moment over ones that had a lasting effect on my interest in them.

Hot girls are the ones you’ll easily find at parties and cute ones find their way to shindigs more often.

It’s amazing because although they’re two totally different type of women they still share qualities that keep them tight enough to be friends.

They’re charming enough to catch the attention of any guy but the intent and sometimes standards between both are different.

Hot girls seem interested and successful more when it comes to immediate gratification while cute girls play a game that favors long term better.

Neither seem to break any moral code (at least directly) but also are willing to go to much different lengths when getting what they want.

Final thoughts

I’m discovering as I’m wrapping things up that this post is closer to one on self love.

The bonus is that we’re helping others out in the process.

It might hit closer as you start deciding that you want to take care of yourself more.

There’s a proverb that came from most mentors who study this practice that comes to mind:

“Nobody’ll take care of you like you will for yourself”

I feel much better closing with that because it applies best to each question we addressed and keeps things simple.