RealTalkAJ

Monotonous tasks. That actually might be more popular of an answer than what I’m giving myself credit for because nobody I could think of likes doing the same thing over and over but not everybody has a blog so I’m gonna speak up about it. But to stay on topic repetitive work bores me because there’s too much predictability. I do like that with some things but not for my career necessarily. Then again that could change as I’m consistently doing things I love to do.

What makes a person boring to you?

I feel silly for even having to look this question up, but don’t worry because really thinking about reminds me that I can confidently answer.

It’s not too far from that portion of my answer above with that predictability element.

I get frustrated with the whole concept of boredom.

I’m someone that likes to have a good time and understandably so I’d want the same for the people around me.

So when anybody says they’re bored around my social circle I’m expecting someone to take that personally.

Again, that goes against traditional hip hop etiquette that I was taught; never take anything that way.

The important response to that is sometimes there’s things bigger than one specific principle, especially when there’s numerous.

If you’ve ever heard the saying “stand for something or fall for anything” then maybe you’ll know how it applies.

Don’t let anyone call you or the people around you boring ESPECIALLY if they’re the ones you believe in.

What makes a guy boring to a girl?

I’m looking forward to answering this because this might correct any areas of closure I needed with past relationships I’ve had.

There’s been a couple good girls I’ve missed out because I was what I’d considered to be boring.

This was in my grade school years so I’d consider myself ignorant of how to act when dealing with girls or even trying to impress them.

I got better with it after getting a chance to review some of the work I did earlier whether it was papers I wrote or videos I made.

The content didn’t matter as much as it was the passion for what I was putting my attention to.

Compare it to my pictures of when I looked happiest around girls (I was with) was also when I was performing my best.

I care about sharing this because there’s so many people that give out what’s seen as bad advice when it comes to courting.

It’s scary in its own way because it seems like a divide amongst people that are seen as respected but also hated.

Careful cuz it’s easy to get lost in a few of my analogies, but the point is just because it’s popular doesn’t mean it’s true.

Just because a guy does something that gets a girl’s attention doesn’t make him less boring or her a person with good taste.

When a girl says ‘you are boring’

“Don’t worry bout nothing!” Is immediately my thoughts.

Am I still alive; yes.
Are there more girls than her; yes.
Is it something I can easily fix; of course.

It took me getting towards being okay with my personal lifestyle to grasp this concept.

Read those self answered questions above again if you ever doubt what you were told by another girl as a guy.

If we’re being honest then we can even acknowledge that means not all’s lost when it comes to the pursued relationship with the girl you’re in hopes of.

With the response I gave that said “of course” it’s probably my favorite scenario to play out in my head.

If it can be fixed then it’s able to be saved.

Sometimes that can just be a warning to get more aware of your habits in order to add more spice to yours and her life.

That should be the goal if you care to be around the girl.

But, to each their own.

How does a boring person behave?

I’m looking this up because it’s a tough question.

Psychology Today says it’s having unexpressive tendencies, speaking monotone, lack of eye contact, etc.

Those are good points cuz I’ve watched plenty of videos that show these type of people (although it’s been less lately).

It’s interesting to find out those get grouped with being boring, if anything I’d say it’s trying to display an attitude.

It might be an issue of what type of character you have and that’s exactly why I subscribe to MBTI tests.

I wanna add even more honesty sharing if you’re extroverted it’s hard to be thought of as boring.

That’s coming from an ENFJ (I have the results [to prove it] and if I come across it I’ll share) by the way.

Final thoughts

I might’ve mentioned it before but it’s worth doing it again, I haven’t met one person yet who wants to be bored.

Being boring is something that’s completely in your control.

If you feel that you are then make that extra effort to be more exciting.

If it’s something that you’re told you are by another person I challenge you to ask them how you can be less boring next time.