RealTalkAJ

It’s AJ, and this is my commercialized blog site, where I can share my lifestyle interests and provide thoughtful insights on topics worth discussing.

  • I’ll be talking about what you can learn from film.

    For many this is a way to learn about life in general some also experience it just for the entertainment value that it provides, but we’re gonna do today is figure out what the benefits are from this form of media.

    What can you learn from film?

    You can learn the value of resilience and the complex aspects of human nature, but the most important is perhaps how social connections are built.

    Value #1 Resilience

    It’s important to keep trying, even when something feels tough to handle because it’s a challenge.

    And challenges are tests that can make you a better person after you figure out what it takes to complete them.

    Resilience in real life can be applied to a school or any other team that you can think of because they all have adversity in common.

    What it looks like applied to those two scenarios is overcoming these challenges that we keep mentioning.

    For example, it could look like having to put in extra work to study and pass a test for a class.

    Or on a team it could be personal politics or having to go through your administration policies in order to satisfy the requirements to continue competing.

    If you keep trying and still don’t get better, it shouldn’t be greeted with feeling overwhelmed. Most wanna just give up.

    It has to be matched with persistence instead, what this does is teach that you do not give up on the first time that something doesn’t work for you.

    I mean there’s even sports where you get several tries at accomplishing a specific goal anyway so if you apply the same concept, you should be just fine.

    Breaking Down The Complex Stages of Human Behavior

    Biology, environment and even personal choices all play a role in shaping human behaviors because of a few factors.

    We’re attached to them at the core.

    DNA and genetic code are things we cannot escape.

    So those are internal things that have to be accepted and embraced in order to properly understand others.

    Environment is another thing that we’re part of. (although we do have choice with where we’re at)

    We have moments where we’re aware of our location, but for the most part it’s not what we’re thinking about entirely.

    And personal choices are inescapable because they’re who we are. It’s actually a luxury if you get to live as long as possible in this capacity.

    Final thoughts

    So from film, we can learn plenty. It’s more than just the storytelling that goes on in them.

    After what we learned, we should understand that the most important areas are the value of resilience and the complex aspects of human nature.

    On top of that is the most important being the social connections that are built.

  • Song of The Moment: Chasin a Dream

    I wanna start a segment I’d like to call song of the moment.

    How I see it working is where I’m sharing an honest critique on what I think of a song I discover.

    I’ve been vocal in here plenty of times in where I’ve admitted that music is a large part of my life, so it only feels right that I dedicate an honest amount of time towards discussing it. But I’ll get right into the song that I’m deciding to talk about. Here we go:

    Chasin a dream

    This is a song that I got sent directly to my phone and got the chance to listen to it on my new audio system.

    I have to say I’m highly impressed, respectfully.

    I’ve heard songs before from this artist but to start off this 2026 year and hearing the first new song of this year for me feels monumental.

    I liked the fact that the content or lyrics match the artwork that’s displayed on the video.

    I’m someone that can probably count on one hand how many times I made a hook. And they weren’t impressive if I could find it.

    But I like the honesty on this song here. That’s saying a lot too because I don’t really out much thought into hooks. I’m a lyricist at heart.

    I recommend you give this song a listen too because it aligns pretty well with what I like to hear sonically.

    It has a melody that feels super vibe-friendly.

    You get the best of 2 worlds here: something that vibrationally feels good to experience and encouraging words that make you feel optimistic about the future

    That might not necessarily be the case for you, but it absolutely feels that way with me.

    There’s probably more that I’m forgetting to add, but I’ll let this be the initial message about the song.

    I wanna thank the artist for sharing this with me, and another shoutout for inspiring me to start this series.

    I’ll be working on staying consistent in sharing my songs of the moment and hopefully allow this to turn into another moment of gratitude one way or another.

  • Who Are the Three Eds, Really?

    The three Eds are really the heart and soul of the show. Together, they’re what drives most of the humor, life lessons, and intrigue around the cul-de-sac they live in. Ed is brainless muscle most could say in relation to the group dynamics that’s in observance. Edd is the brains actually. He makes a majority of all the complex scams that the group indulges in pushing forward… a real science and technology fanatic that helps contribute to the group in that way. And Eddy is the charismatic/too cool for school but really isn’t guy in the group. He takes leadership in a way that employs a commanding presence when the group presents their scam.

  • Are you a PFE?

    I wanna know if you are what I call a Professional Freedom Expert.

    I see someone that falls in that category as someone who has their passion serve them in more ways than one.

    They’re allowing it to let them travel, earn, and experience.

    You might not care all that much about a label such as that, but thought I’d ask anyway.

    And something must be going better for me to finally update this blog for you all.

    Hopefully this month can finish strong for you all like I have planned for myself.

  • Why are stories such an effective way to connect with others on an emotional level? (Explained)

    When we hear a story, something shifts. Our imagination activates, our emotions react, and suddenly, the message being shared feels personal. Stories allow us to make sense of ideas in a way that facts and data simply can’t. They paint vivid pictures in our minds and help us explore what others feel, believe, or experience. Whether it’s a movie, a family memory, or a brand message, storytelling becomes a bridge—making connections feel more natural and meaningful. That’s why stories have been passed down across generations. They stick with us, shape us, and inspire us to take action or see the world differently.

    Why Are Stories Such an Effective Way to Connect With Others on an Emotional Level?

    Stories are an effecting way to connect with others on emotional level because imagination can be extracted and imposed in one. There’s less restrictions when it’s done this way. They also can be revisited again, and with that is an opportunity to revise or improve the original piece. The possibilities are incredible in gaining feedback on them because the next could be customized to suit a more specific demographic the next time around.

    Imagination Becomes a Shared Space

    One of the strongest reasons stories are emotionally powerful is that they turn imagination into a shared experience. Instead of being presented with rigid information, people create their own mental version of what they’re hearing. That freedom allows the audience to place themselves in the story—seeing, feeling, and interpreting through their own lens. The listener fills in details with personal memories and beliefs, making the connection deeper than surface-level communication. When the storyteller leaves room for imagination, it breaks down walls and invites empathy, curiosity, and understanding to flourish.

    Creativity Removes Restrictions

    Stories replace constraints with possibility. In most forms of communication, structure limits how far ideas can stretch. But storytelling encourages flexibility. A concept can be exaggerated, symbolized, or explored in any number of directions to make the emotional message stronger. This creative freedom allows storytellers to reach people who might otherwise feel disconnected from a topic. Instead of pushing information at someone, the narrative draws them into a world where feelings guide meaning. When there are fewer restrictions, people become more open—and that is how emotional bonds are formed.

    A Story Can Be Revisited and Reinvented

    Unlike spoken instructions or fleeting statistics, stories have longevity. They can be retold, adapted, or expanded for new audiences or new eras. Each time a story is shared again, it holds potential for improvement. The storyteller can revise details, enhance character emotions, or adjust the message to better resonate. That revisiting builds familiarity, and familiarity builds emotional attachment. It’s why people keep rewatching favorite films or retelling childhood tales—they evolve with us. A story that grows over time becomes part of the audience’s identity.

    Feedback Allows Stories to Be More Personal

    One underrated advantage of storytelling is that responses to a story can help shape the next one. Reactions—whether laughter, silence, or excitement—offer guidance on what truly connects. Creators can use that feedback to tailor stories for specific groups who might relate more personally. As the story becomes more aligned with the audience’s needs and emotions, emotional impact multiplies. Stories are dynamic tools that can be customized to reach hearts more effectively every time they are shared.

    Conclusion

    Stories connect with people emotionally because they invite imagination, remove communication barriers, and keep evolving over time. They create shared experiences where feelings guide understanding. And with every retelling, they can be refined to resonate even more with a particular audience. Whether in personal conversations, education, or marketing, storytelling continues to be one of the most powerful ways to build real human connection—turning information into something people feel, not just hear.

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RealTalkAJ

It’s AJ, and this is my commercialized blog site, where I can share my lifestyle interests and provide thoughtful insights on topics worth discussing.

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