RealTalkAJ

It’s AJ, and this is my commercialized blog site, where I can share my lifestyle interests and provide thoughtful insights on topics worth discussing.

Category: personal development

  • Why does everybody seem to have an opinion about everything? (Explained)

    There’s 2 reasons that I could think of immediately: social media and being in a culture of feedback. Pick your favorite social and you can bet going viral is a majority of people’s goals, most of the time coming from sharing an opinion that’s intended to shock the world one way or another. And the…

  • Sure I could say I’m kind, caring, emphatic, thoughtful or something similar, but I’m going with the above about myself this time. Most people choose other things about themselves. Maybe it’s the size of their eyes, being small, being able to make cute faces or funny messages with emojis, having unique sized body parts, flirting…

  • It’s because it allows you to keep your mind focused on God while at the same time avoiding the temptation of your desires. Self-control guides our decision making skills and it influences the other spiritual fruits that we choose to share with others when interacting among them. It should be seen as a fruit because…

  • It’s not the popular concept of ‘focusing on your own journey and not the journey of others’. Mine is actually the life lesson of discipline. There’s plenty of reasons why being disciplined serves to take those who practice it far in life. It actually falls in line really well with another principle that I like…

  • Write about your approach to budgeting. I’d have some type of program in place that’ll help me stay disciplined in my spending habits. There’s a financial technique I would employ with whatever my income would be: Save a portion of whatever I make! I’ll have it range from 10-30% and never touch it until it’s…