RealTalkAJ

An aggressive chat is all a big test. Unless there’s people you knowingly did wrong that’s present in your chat and are confronting you is another matter. But handling this experience is accepting the moment for what it really is. There’s opportunity to misread messages and even intent when someone types behind a keyboard. If it clearly bothers you then address the behavior and set your boundaries. Even remove them immediately or warn the user.

Are victims responsible for their victimization?

I’m coming from the side of a person that consistently and constantly deals with content.

If there’s anyone that has a problem with you in the chat then they’re already not doing what they’re supposed to.

But take my advice with saying that you don’t wanna escalate a situation to be more intense than it has to.

There’s so much transparency and openness that you’re already bringing to the table so think in terms of safety.

If you’re going to be an accessible person then at least be someone that has more allies than enemies.

How do you accept reality

• Practicing mindfulness
• acknowledge your feelings
• embrace what you’re experiencing

Reality as a whole can be a wake-up call for the blind.

It takes letting go of resistance and judgment for real enlightenment on what things really are.

Focusing on what’s in your control is all you need to do.

Why do I misread situations

The brain’s wired to quickly judge information based on patterns and past experiences.

It can be tough having new expectations on similar situations.

It’s really on you with how you’re gonna see the moment before you.

If you’re the type to think nothing ever changes and things will always be the same then you’re right.

But if you’re also a person that thinks things can be better than what it seems then that’s true too.

You have to ask yourself “what type of thinking am I doing at the moment”.

Who do I listen to?

How do they think?

This can prove to be one of the toughest cycles to overcome because of how challenging it is to be self aware.

The best way to have a chance at understanding this better is working on trusting the people you’re sure have influence over you.

They help you steer the ship that helps you travel through life.