RealTalkAJ

I’ll be explaining my thoughts on why men can get away without being beautiful in life but it’s not the case with women.

It’s yet another controversial message that I’m bringing to you.

Very red-pill-ish energy if you ask me.

I’m not claiming to be from that community but I could see where this could catch someone’s attention from there.

Looks weren’t really a problem for me growing up and I don’t even feel that way to this day.

I will however acknowledge that I’m seeing the modern woman evolve into another kind from what I was used to.

We’re gonna get into this topic and hopefully spark some good conversation from it.

But without any more time to take up let’s get into it.

Why Men Can Get Away Without Being Beautiful In Life But Not Women

As sad it may be to admit it’s true in saying a man has value in other areas of life that’s just not in high of demand with women. An example that I could share because of my experience with it is having clever wordplay in creative writing.

Men and women are valued differently

As a male myself I can proudly share what I think helps increase my value with the other gender.

I believe opposites attract so if you’re a girl reading this and likes the type of man I am or someone similar to me pay attention.

It might actually do you better to be the opposite or focus less on nurturing these qualities I’m about to boast on having.

I think I’m valued by other girls thanks to my sense of ambition.

I’m clever in my approach towards whatever I want.

And in turn that helps me to be confident when it’s time to really perform.

That’s not something every man could say they have and it takes a certain level of awareness to own those traits.

But if you need help discovering your own then I strongly advise taking an MBTI test.

They’re great with helping you put a label to your personality that’s outside of horoscopes.

Final thoughts

So if you’re a man and think you have to be incredibly attractive to get women you’re wrong.

Women should really read in between the lines for lack of better term.

This message I’m sharing isn’t necessarily a written in stone fact but it definitely comes from an honest place.

Meet me there if you’re struggling with agreeing.

Or do it in the comments if you really feel driven to do something.

It’s just an ‘unspoken’ truth in saying women have more pressure to be beautiful than a man.

My mention on being clever and having witty wordplay should be confirmation enough in getting an honest male perspective.

It’s consistent with my claims.

I’m challenging my brain to meet demands that the surface may not see up front.

And this isn’t me saying I don’t believe I’m attractive in the looks department.

It’s more of a self assuring message in sharing my beliefs of the male and female gender being different.