RealTalkAJ

I’ll be explaining why most people feel like they’re not in control of their own life.

Why Most People Feel Like They’re Not in Control of Their Own Life

Most people feel like they’re not in control of their own life because of their lack of power. Generally speaking they’re missing something in life. It’s possible that it’s from having bad relationships. Maybe they feel irrelevant. There’s definitely a lack of vision. There’s important details in messages that most people can’t remember. That could lead to an unhappy partner. Or maybe not having skills they feel confident about.

Having a Lack of Power

Lack of power is the consequence of not being put in a good position.

It’s usually a result of not having enough resources either.

Missing Something Important

If you get to the point where you don’t have control then it’s cuz you’re right.

Ultimately it’s because you’re missing something that you crave.

Having Bad Relationships

Not having control also adds stress to your relationships.

And having bad relationships affects your personal life to a point where you’re feeling helpless.

Feeling Irrelevant

How you feel about yourself matters tremendously when it comes to having control in your life.

You can’t do much if you feel less than what you’re trying to become.

Running around with a lack of vision

Your vision matters more to the type of control you have then its typically given credit for.

If you don’t feel like you have control of your life you need to get more clarity on what you plan on coming into your life.

The Memory Factor

Several times throughout the day we’re given gems that can impact our life in a positive way and that’s if we’re looking.

It’s up to us to memorialize these keys and find useful ways to effectively apply them.

We scramble our memories with several distractions:

• The drugs we take
• Some of the foods we eat
• Programs we tune into
• Stressful situations we choose to entertain

Memory is the goal and if you have your mind consumed with things that distract it then it only takes away from your power.

Having an Unhappy Partner

An unhappy partner is yet another factor that could play a role in you not having that feeling of control.

If your friend has a great amount of impact over your emotions and confidence then they’re in control of your power.

Lacking in Important Skills

Being a man without the skills you think are needed to be a force in the world is mental jail.

The thing about it is you’re able to fix this issue pretty easily with how quickly you can get access to information.

Final thoughts

Here’s why most people feel like they’re not in control of their own life again:

• Lack of power
• Missing something in their life
• Having bad relationships
• Feeling irrelevant
• Running around without having any vision
• Not remembering pieces of advice given that could change your life
• Having an unhappy partner
• Lacking in skills you believe are importance for success