Only disrespect me if you won’t need me ever again

I was gonna title this “is it ever called for to disrespect someone” but I’m going with more of a statement.

When you choose to go as far as disrespecting someone intentionally then that communicates for lack of obviousness.

You’re deciding to let anybody know that I don’t need you and I want to hurt your feelings.

We transitioned into what I call a hypocritical culture.

And maybe that’s a bit of a stretch but there’s at least a shift in expectations.

I’m a millennial that grew up with baby boomers.

So their expectation of respect came at an extremely young age.

And it wasn’t necessarily a reciprocal thing either.

You had to do as I say and not question why I’m doing another if that’s the case.

Now I’m thinking it’s at a point where most elders from the middle class and below are too shy for enforcing that.

It won’t be tough now to find a situation where the elder is more concerned about “disrespecting” the youth than the other way around.

If you need the formula for ultimate disrespect in a relationship then I got it.

All you have to do is take the time to understand the other party’s values and fake care about it to only use it against them.

It’s one of the worst things you could do by intentionally wasting time and eventually prove that it was a waste to whoever you invested it with.

I won’t air anybody out specifically because I’ve personally experienced it happen more often than not.

I’m willing to acknowledge that’s not the norm but it really was mine for a while.

This isn’t about me as much as it is about being an exposition on society as a whole.

I’ve gotten much better at responding to someone that disrespected me.

I’ll create something that gets my feelings and thoughts out in a creative way.

I’ve just got lucky with being able to have several options with going about it.

The catch is that I won’t spend too much time on making that response because then that defeats the purpose of doing it.

Why would I spend so much time on someone I don’t like?

I already am proving that I’m in a better position than you so to spend that much time on you is suggesting you’re a worthy rival.

I don’t have too many of those.

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