RealTalkAJ

I’ll be explaining why disagreement’s important in relationships.

We can chalk it up as another gem to put in the Relationship Building pile we’ve been working on.

Why Disagreement is Important in Relationships

Disagreement strengthens your relationship.

Strengthen Your Relationship

Here’s my 7 favorite methods for utilizing and strengthening relationships I’m wanting to keep.

• Keep things guaranteed and some unpredictable
• Work your available resources
• Focus on building trust
• Embrace the present
• Have music work in your favor when you feel it’s needed
• Focusing on having a heightened sense of emotional intelligence
• Learn when to keep things short or dive deep

Balancing Predictability and Spontaneity

Depending on the person you’re in a relationship with they might prefer one thing over another but balance is typically best.

Mastering these 2 qualities work the same way anything else you would try and master will take.

Time and effort.

If we were to compare the two I’d say most prefer a spontaneous person in romance.

It really boils down to your careers.

If you understand where someone spends most of their time it reveals the things they prefer all across the board.

The Benefits of Using Resources

The best label for working tools that’s available to you is called resource management.

When we apply it to a relationship you want to preserve or even strengthen its simply using tools that are there.

There’s licensed professionals in several different areas of relationships.

Exploring your areas of improvement will be critical and play a role in being efficient with utilizing resources.

Building Trust in a Relationship

• Open Communication
• Consistency
• Reliability
• Transparency
• Being able to demonstrate empathy
• Setting and respecting boundaries 
• Apologizing and forgiving when need be
• Being dependable in times of need
• Remembering to be vulnerable

That’s every ingredient you’ll need to build trust in a relationship.

Using Music to Enhance Relationships

Playing music together releases oxytocin in the brain. What that does is promotes:

• Trust
• empathy
• the ability to influence the mental state of others

Research proves when we try bonding with others musically we’ll tend to feel positive social feelings.

The Impact of Emotional Intelligence on Relationships

Being emotionally intelligent:

• forge deeper connections
• resolves conflicts with grace
• allows you to experience more fulfilling and harmonious relationships

A loving relationship with at least one partner that got emotional intelligence always keeps things in perspective.

There a reason why it’s one of the most attractive qualities you can have for both employment and dating demands.

Knowing Exactly How Much to Share

A good rule of thumb is sharing only as much you want given back.

With that in mind it’s wise to also share things of substance that’s worth the others person’s attention.

Final thoughts

Disagreement’s important in relationships for this reason again.

It’s best to label it as healthy tension because I got a feeling someone’s gonna take this and run with saying I’m telling you to argue.

All you have to do is stay firm on things you feel stern about.

It’s differences that make us unique.