RealTalkAJ

I’ll be starting a discussed with why it’s hard for some people to say yes.

Why is it hard for some people to say yes?

Here’s a few reasons why some people have a hard time saying yes:

• Worrying about the expense
• Lack of confidence

It has to be accepted that you can be thoughtful about how you ask the question too and still not get it. And there’s even irony in that sometimes it works the same way with “no”

Why money makes a difference in someone saying yes

Money makes a difference in whether someone says yes because it’s a huge motivator for most people.

Here’s a scenario, someone might turn down an offer to go somewhere because they’ll think they won’t have enough money to enjoy themselves.

The funny thing is most people tend to forget that saying yes more often actually earns you more.

And there’s probably someone somewhere that you’ve heard saying to stop saying yes to things you don’t wanna do.

I call shenanigans on that because there’s gonna be moments where you’re gonna have to do things outside of your plans if you wanna elevate.

There’s a balance that should be exercised because it’s good to go after money but it should be the means to an end.