RealTalkAJ

• I’m someone that likes to mastermind among the group I’m part of
• I’m focused on my goals
• I can be confident about topics I’m interested in
• I love talking about money
• I’m a leader
• I have a pleasing personality
• My imagination constantly runs wild
• I can be tough to collaborate with when I’m with strangers
• My self control is high in spikes
• My tolerance level for different people is high
• I make it a habit to do more than I’m always paid for

Technical masterminds

I’m confident in my ability to perform a mastermind when I find myself in unexpected scenarios.

It takes being able to hear everybody out and accept them as an idea you plan on seeing through to the end.

I make their goals the same as my own.

My confidence comes in trusting their expertise and ability to treat my goals just as important as their own.

It’s not a skill that everybody has and needs to be taken seriously when you find someone that can enhance one.

What it takes to focus on a goal

Being someone that can focus on a goal means you’re willing to take action and willing to step out your comfort zone.

I’m laser focused on my sights and see that being one of my superpowers.

One of my greatest moments of success was through my schooling years and I’m reminded through all of these hardware.

It doesn’t look to be stopping soon but the point is picturing what you want makes seeing the goal through even more possible.

What makes someone Confident talking about their passions

Having experiences and memories with the topic you’re talking about makes speaking on them incredibly easy.

When you’re looking into the eye of another person sharing an opinion about a topic you both have in common can give you a rush.

I get confidence because there’s a good chance I did my homework on the subject.

It’s something you’ll spend time outside of your event doing.

Loving to talk about money

Because I’m curious about money and all things that make it what it is I think that’s what makes working among groups easier.

Not to be confused with being a know-it-all.

I’m aware that I’m still a student to:

• The skill of acquiring money
• Keeping it
• Growing it

Call it crazy but I feel it’s safe to assume that there’s at least another person in the group that wants to learn more about money too.

It’s easy to leverage and motivate others to work harder.

Because of those reasons it’s just another thing I believe keeps me relevant when I’m involved in a conversation.

Becoming a good leader

Being a leader isn’t a cookie cutter image but it’s our job to continue defining what makes us one.

If you ever were captain on a sports team or led the presentation for an important group project then you could relate.

And for those unaware:

That means there’s hope.

You may not be or even think you’re looking how a leader should.

I’m learning it’s less on how you see it and more of what others show you they need.

Leadership is more than an image.

It’s the values and principles that help you define a culture.

You’re showing the world what really matters.

Having a pleasing personality

It’s not the coolest thing to admit but I can say that being someone that’s likable in group settings proves to work out consistently.

Because of that I get invited to do trips.

I’m constantly going out to dinners and festivals.

The list goes on.

The point is I’m not getting invited to go anywhere if I weren’t cool to be around.

Doesn’t matter if it’s a party or a business discussion either.

I’m bringing positivity where it’s needed.

How would you describe yourself to someone who can’t see you?

I’d say that I’m a black entrepreneur that constantly looks for new ways and opportunities to get ahead in life.

Maybe I made myself sound like an opportunist there but wanting more for yourself can be a great thing.

I’m a millennial that’s under 30 with plenty of unfinished business in life.

I’ve been focusing on 2 things lately, affiliate marketing and music.

Those 2 activities have been taking up a good majority of my time and to be honest it’s been the greatest use of it that I can think of.

What have those 2 things done for me that I’m so grateful for?

It’s helped build my character, that’s the main thing.

Most people want success in some shape or form but are too scared or lazy to become a person who’s worthy enough for it.

How does it build my character?

It’s pushed me in ways that challenge me to solve problems.

It’s helped me to become more independent emotionally and mentally.

The only other thing that I can argue helped do something for me in this way was when I was still competing in wrestling.

I have a personality that’s evolved into being a person that’s always had a chip on their shoulder.

Wrestling helped push me physically, spiritually and mentally but once that stopped I would say I had a craving to fill that void in which those 2 activities did just that.

It’s hard to say that it got the job done completely but the process reminds me very well of the resiliency that I had to have in order to be successful in that sport.

I can say that I’m a person that walks with more faith than I ever had in my life.

I think it elevates my faith because there’s a lot of trust that I had to put in myself and things I couldn’t even see in order to find the strength to keep continuing my journey.

I’ve been emphasizing relationship building more in my life because I see with blogging and other things that involved communicating with other people on the internet is the same qualities I need in order to hold a simple relationship with anybody.

Whether it’s my love-life, career or relationship with my higher power it takes effort.

The effort to build something and continuing to do it until you get things to where you want it to be.

In a culture where we’re taught you’re either winning or losing there’s still something that it takes to even be considered the winner or loser is still the effort to even step up to the challenge.

You learn different things to manipulate your results and one that I’m actively refining is my ability to cut-off and walk away from things that no longer serve a purpose in my life anymore.

Sometimes I have to remind myself on my socials just to confirm that what I’m doing is necessary to keep moving forward with my plans.

Without going too far off on a tangent I just wanted to share that thought of how I’m the type of person who’s very goal-driven and I’m on a path that I’m reminded daily most people aren’t on.

It can be lonely but I’m positive that the rewards definitely outweigh the occasional grief that I experience from disappointment.

Regardless, I’m grateful at the end of the day and I try to live my life daily in a way that proves I’m someone who believes in themself despite any challenges that may come my way.

That’s the type of person that I am.